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How to level up your life

Every time I’ve leveled up my life, it’s been because of the people I surrounded myself with, who helped pull me in the direction I wanted to go.

I’ve done this four times in the worlds of:

  • Heavy metal music
  • Electronic music
  • Cybersecurity
  • Audio software

And I’m currently doing it to learn operating systems development.

By the time I was 16, I had released two heavy metal albums on the internet. A large reason why this happened was because I surrounded myself online with a community of people who really cared about this.

In these communities, it was completely normal to be recording your own instrumental heavy metal music, and releasing it every 6-12 months.

Imagine a real-life party for this kind of person. You walk in the room, and if you’re not personally making and releasing your own instrumental heavy metal music online, you’re going to be a bit of the odd one out.

You’re doing to do one of two things. Either, you’ll leave the room, because it’s not the room for you… Or, if you choose to keep hanging out with these people, you’ll probably start making some music.

Working at Ableton has probably been the best example of this in my life. It was one of the hardest rooms to get into, but the learning on the other side has been incredible.

I’ve been able to work with masters of the craft, who have been doing this for 20+ years. And because I’m on the same team as them, they’re incentivized to pull me up to the level I need to be at to work alongside them.

The point is: You need to find alignment between:

  • the things you care about, your passions, what you want
  • the spaces, rooms, and people you’re surrounding yourself with
  • and the natural direction those rooms are going to pull you in.

Exploit your unfair advantages

My YouTube channel recently crossed 10,000 subscribers, and I’ve done this by exploiting an intersection of three of my unique strengths:

  • Systems programming
  • Not being camera shy
  • Discipline & Consistency

I’m not world class in any of these by themselves, but the combination is a bit more rare and helps me to stand out.

I’m definitely not the best programmer in the world.

I’m also definitely not the most charismatic person in the world. But the bar is pretty low for programmers, especially in my niche of systems programming. I’m a lot less camera shy than most programmers I know.

I’m also not the most consistent person, but I’ve been able to sustain a pace of one livestream per week for about two years.

The end result is that I don’t really have competitors. 95% of the people with the technical skill set that I do have no interest in making content or putting themselves out there online. The remaining 5% either don’t quite have the skill set, or don’t quite have the consistency and burn out.

Everyone has unfair advantages relative to the other players in the field.

  • Maybe you have a natural inclination for [thing]?
  • Maybe you’re young and beautiful?
  • Maybe you’re experienced and wise?
  • Maybe you have a lot of energy?
  • Maybe you’re calm and comforting?
  • Maybe you have a nice voice?
  • Maybe you’re really tall or strong?
  • Maybe you’re a man in a female-dominated field?
  • Maybe you’re a woman in a male-dominated field?
  • Maybe you’re not shy?
  • Maybe you can hyper-focus so intensely?
  • Maybe you find talking to people effortless?
  • Maybe you have a lot of time?
  • Maybe you have a lot of money?
  • Maybe you’re resourceful under constraints?

Exploiting your unfair advantages is nothing to be guilty for, once you realize that everyone has them.

Doing things in the world is hard enough as it. You can choose to attempt it without exploiting your strengths, but just know you’re playing on extra hard mode.